Growth part - 1
One of the constants of our lives is change. Everyone change. Some for good, some for bad. Would we continue our relationship with someone whom we have judged to be a bad person?
Like most of the things, there are multiple ways in which this can be handled. The best way of dealing with things changes from person to person, but there cannot be a Right way to deal with things as it will again, change with perspective.
The best way is to deal with life is to learn about ourselves. Understand what we want, what makes us happy and gives joy.
Life is tough as it is but if we're stuck doing things we don't like, hang out with people with whom we fake our personality... just complicates things.
Since we've established that life is tough and has it's own problems, finding / making new problems would not help fix the Life problem. The newly created problems might mask the big picture, but eventually, when all these tiny self-made problems are resolved, we will have to deal with Life problem.
Being honest to ourselves is the important thing. People are different. Being honest to others including parents will worry them, again create problems.
Living a peaceful life without any worries will be the ultimate goal of most people. That is the problem that life gives us to solve.
to be continued...
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